Yes, I have found another. A second repeat of the incident was the last straw.

I remember 80 months ago when I found him, barely in my then current relationship with another. He understood my needs and mindful of my pecularities. I was ecstatic to have found him and quickly hooked up with him.

But something went awry for the last 3 weeks. It first started with messages from my friend overseas delivered to me only 8 hours later. I was really puzzled. I couldn’t get hold of him but understood he was supposed to call in the next 2 days. 2 days came and gone. In the meantime, the problem went away on its own and so I just assumed it was one of those days. When he finally called, I told him the problem but said nevermind since it was going well again.

It happened again about a week later. This time both local and overseas messages were delayed by 6 hours. He promised to look into it but couldn’t give me a timeline. I was hoping it would be fixed as soon as possible since I am happy in this relationship. Told myself that I would abandon this if it happened again.

But alas, it was not meant to be as it happened again recently. Reluctantly, I broke up with him on Saturday and took up with another as I have my needs

Yes, I have switched from Starhub to Singtel.